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How to identify a single and desperate female

Many women who are single and in their late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: complete their first degree, masters, a job, a promo, make money, be independent and settle by 30, latest 32. Of course, nature constantly chuckles back at their wonderful attempt to determine the speed of their lives.

Over the years, they refuse potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to get to 37 with nothing to reveal for it other than money in the bank, an automobile, and often a child from a relationship that never ever rather worked.

So, now they are stuck in a stage where they will never ever find a male of their dreams and have to opt for any man who will be gracious enough to even recommend marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow requirements they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen numerous women in their 20s buy into the misdirected, feminist belief that men and marital relationship are bad for their scholastic and career development. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a lady get, the less a possibility she stands of marrying somebody desirable. It is a fact of life, not a chauvinistically inspired thought.

Really few men would marry a 35-year-old woman who is independent and opinionated when we reside in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying somebody wealthier than you) society. There are lots of young and hot lovely women prepared to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man supplies.

It is good to be enthusiastic, even much better to break the stupid glass ceilings, however at what cost? Bottom line, at some time, you will require a man in your life. Granted there are lesbians and some who are not thinking about marriage, however my experience with older single women has shown that they mainly live a life full of regrets.